Parenting Role In Shaping Character Kids

Parenting Role In Shaping Character Kids

"Do not worry that children do not listen to you, but worry that they are always watching you" - Robert Fulghum

Successfull in educating of our children are the dream of all parents.Every parent want their children to be successful and happy, but is that easy? The majority of parents have experienced difficulties in educating their beloved kids. 

Let ask to ourself. Have we thought that the negative program which (may) we inadvertently instilled into the subconscious mind of our children, will continue to dominate and control thier life - making a mess in the future? If we want an honest evaluation on ourself, it could be all of us, including me as a parent have done and are doing this for our children.

Citing what is disclosed Dorothy Law Nollte:

If children live with criticism, then they learned the curse

If children live with hostility, they learned to fight

If children live with ridicule, they learns the inferiority

If children live with humiliation, they learned self-pity

If children live with tolerance, they learned to control myself

If children live with motivation, then they learns confidence

If children live with tenderness, then they learned to appreciate

If children live with security, so they learned to trust

If children live with approval, they learns to appreciate yourself

If children live with love and friendship, they learns to find love in his life

As the above title of this article Parenting Role In Shaping Character Kids,

for us as parents, what is the character of our children we want to instill in? Give an example of it in the attitudes and actions as well as words. It is easily the child will follow  and store it in the subconscious memory, and will be reissued at the time "there was provocation". The point? When we give an example of respect and affection for our spouses, our children while married someday they would follow the example of our parents' behavior towards their partners.

Now this is a very valid one aphorisms or proverb "the fruit does not fall far from the tree" and I feel very well when a lot of my clients who feel that life is the result of a "imitating" from the parents. If parents give a good influence is not a problem, but if the household as her parents' messy then this is a disaster. 

Be a role model for our beloved baby, the first and initially the child will always learn from its immediate environment, namely parents. They absorb information with the good of their five senses. Not just the words of the parents, but the attitude and behavior of parents will they absorb too, even you do not realize.

If we are parents, want to know how much value you as parents in educating children, there is an easy way to know. The first report cards of our children at school (play group or kindergarten), it is our own report cards as a parent, not the child. You can draw from these results, how the quality of the "product" (child) you. Well, it is the beginning of the current report cards 3-5 years you have a family and educate children. 

But if you want to know the end result look at your child's life when he was in the real life. Take a look at the interaction, how to talk, how to behave, if we are more observant and wise parents look at their financial condition. The better the financial condition of your child is directly proportional to your child's character owned.