The Power Of Positive Parenting

We have continuously been reminded by the word of NEGATIVES in life that has been the only word. Several media always remind us those things are very bad, it extremely hard to get through even one hour in a day. Most of us have negative self-thoughts haven't we? I wonder sometimes, our family is included. These thoughts have quickly become associate actions and find passed on to the others.

The Power Of Positive Parenting

Here is something that most people not preferable to get, namely NEGATIVITY. We are always and normally turned off by things and ideas, and negative people. Those who already indoctrinated into a dangerous attributes would force on us in the coming future, including hopelessness, sadness and a culture that thrives on bad news.

Children are those people who most endangered to negativity. Lack of emotion could be happened towards adult or kids because of social act and untrue information. Many things could happen to our kids such as intimidating, insulting or the worse things is bullying at the institution or school but the story would be overturned if parents conjoin or taking care of their kids.

The life of our children would be affected by what we said today. Thus as parents we have to be correctly not to mark our children with these words:

- "I told you to do this but you are very stubborn and dull". 

- "You are extremely lazy. No one would do this except you the lazy one!”

- “You know when I was at your age; I was not as lazy as you!"

Children words also should be noticed by parents. It could be an indication or couses self-believed matter that could affect their mental or the other:

Just take attention they might say:

"I am stupid and lazy" my teacher said.

"Everybody avoiding me"

"Whatever I do is always wrong"

"I am just a mess"

In the children’s brain these kinds of ideas do not just fly in. Teachers, families, friends and others who put them into their minds. We need to find out if our children are saying those kinds and take right and positive attention to change their mind positively. Terrible things would happen if we do not take action quickly. Some children would hurt themselves orally or physically.

Let's begin our positive parenting program from the right sources try just to follow this, by following the right sources may our children would increase their self-esteem. Feel and think that we as their parents are not the part or causes of problem. We have to take care about what we are going to say toward our children. Pay attention the effect from outside of the community; they are probably the causes of troubles. Try to tell to teachers or friends of your children carefully.

Trying to speak to your children's friends or classmates could get good outcome or information that we may not get it from teachers or the important figures. Those people might not know the root for problem or could be the causes of them. Annoyer are easy to be recognized because do not think that what they are doing is untrue. Instead they may think that is funny. Annoyer could even say this to your children, "you are fool etc." I have ever seen and heard this occurred.

Begin to focus on our children self-esteem, once we get things ready and cleaned up everything trouble from outside make home clear as well, such as family from the negativity, bullying or physical and verbal abuse if it is not an option. Make a list of positive and personal attributes should be asked to them. Their skills, talents, personality and body should be taken priority on the positive things that they and others should notice. Persuade them to start a daily diary and programs of thought in their daily life which they are kin to share with us at the weekend.

What is important and not for our children's life "diaries" is the better tips to be included. These things would give us a beginning point to solve out of those things with our children. Remember to cope with the constant negativity; children may not have the intellectual's tool. We have got to try to put back as much as of the negativity as we could and help our children to understand and learning how to deal with whatever remaining.

Try to bring positive people or things into your children's lives, it could be useful for our children or even toward us as parent. Give our time for our children to see the movie, going to religious place such as mosques, church etc. Provide books and keep our children busy with useful activity than could entertain or motivating them.

Try to give praise or appreciation, whenever our children achieve a good grade or something they have done in the exact time such as finishing home work. Ensure to say thank "you" speak to them how much we appreciate the good things they have done in everyday life. Rewards are needed as well, but remember not overmuch.

Remember, that there are no perfect parents and children in this life. Make sure to pay attention and focus constantly in the life of 

our children, which is all we could do. Make preventive actions and be proactive before the problems coming and ruining them till they give up and despairing. Always follow this site.