Positive Parenting – How to Discipline Kids Without Argument

Positive Parenting - How to Discipline Kids Without Argument

Whenever you and your child argue with you, what happens to discipline children? It seems a battle; do the discipline children have effect towards them? Here are three ways to learn and to model character and practice for solving arguments. You deserve to get the respect from your children.

The Discipline Problem:

Arguing with your children without ending.

It is like a spinning top when you arguing with your children. Until you give up it is just spinning and spinning till over and say "Yes" when in reality you want to say "No."

Senseless arguments push children to argue with parents. Just take care when they are not, otherwise you will fail disciplining them. They would win. Why? Many children argue with parents a bit longer and louder than parents. You could change it if this is the way your children want.

Just have a look at three ways or discipline solutions for solving problems and ending arguments, but do not forget your past first. Have you ever argued with your parents? How did you feel it, did you win? What was it like, whether it was easy to give up rather than to keep arguing? What have you got and you wanted whether arguing with parents was the only way to achieve your desire? Have you remembered what you have told to your parents?

• You've always said, 'No!"
• You've always complained that you've done everything by yourself!
• This is not fair!

You might felt strong or powerful, guilty and angry. You might lose your respect towards your parents. Calm down, think and realize your children would feel the same thing. That is why stop arguing, manipulation. You have to find a different solution to solve the problems.

First Parenting Tip - Model Respect and Character:

The power to teach is not only from your words but also your voice and body language as well. The following mistake has been done by some parents on teaching discipline to their children. These mistakes could be yours, be aware!

• Arguing with a loud and rough voice. Do not do this because children will learn to         argue with the same way.
• Standing, angry face, pointing finger with stiff body language, because parents do this so the children will learn this model.
• Using hurtful words, yelling name. If parents modeled this the children would do the same.

What parents should do:

Ask your children to sit and a bit relax, speak calmly and firmly. You are the parent, as well as the teacher and the model. Create a calm body language and speak in good manner.

• When your children is speaking look into their eyes.
• Provide your children with your full of attention.
• Try to ask a question to your children to show your interest.
• Try to avoid interrupting them.
• Try to focus on the subject.

At the ends try to stop turning into endless argument with your children. Use the formula to solve arguments. Create both character and respect. As a parents no need to roll over and say "Yes" when you want to say "No". Give them special attention, listen and speak well toward them. If parents do those things, they will get love and respect from your children.

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